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For Extrasensories: Boundary Setting With Sociopathic Malignant Narcissists

Updated: Sep 30, 2023

NO. 2 in my 'FRESH AIR:


“What are you going to do? Are you going to live in the dark, locked in here?

Afraid to look out, answer the door, leave?

Yes, he's out there, and he's clearly not going to leave you alone

until one of three things happens: he hurts you and gets arrested,

or he makes a mistake and gets arrested, or you stop him.”

― Rachel Caine, 'Fall of Night'

Today I discuss a number of ways for us Extra-Sensories to deal with the stalking behaviours of Malignant Narcissists. Gangstalking is at pandemic level and creatures once human walk our streets,

fungal-infected and braindead, watching every move we make and

every breath we take, wanting everything we've got. And why?

Because they're empty and they want us to fill them.

Ashley Olivine, Ph.D., MPH, describes Malignant Narcissism as a psychological disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-worth, a need for admiration, and a disregard for others.

Traits of Malignant Narcissism

Since malignant narcissism is a combination of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and antisocial personality disorder, it includes symptoms of both conditions.

Traits of NPD may include:

  • An inflated sense of talent, achievement, and self-importance

  • Fantasies about sex, power, intelligence, or beauty without limit

  • Need for attention and admiration that is excessive

  • Either a lack of emotion or extreme, negative emotions when faced with negative feedback or indifference

  • Interpersonal disturbances

Traits of antisocial personality disorder include:

  • An inability to feel guilt, remorse, and empathy

  • A lack of concern for the well-being of others

  • Recklessness, irresponsibility, and impulsivity

  • Exploitation, aggression, and deceit

  • Behaviors that violate the law and the rights of others.

Additionally, people with malignant narcissism often suffer from paranoia that's related to the inability to deal with criticism or lack of approval.



All this in mind, I retreat to my castle to muse on the psychopathic fungal-infected zombified narcissists out there stalking me, and think up ways to permanently remove and lock them out of my life.

My Home is my Castle

When an Extrasensory Is Being Stalked

“Be leery of silence.

It doesn't mean you won the argument.

Often, people are just busy reloading their guns.”

― Shannon L. Alder

YOU KNOW IT. You feel it. Could be an ex, friend or family member. Maybe a Coven or a Cult that has it in for you. Or all of the above. This has nothing to do with you and everything to do with who you are. They want what you've got, every little bit, and plan to end the long, slow torture with your death. Could be ritual sacrifice, or slow poisoning.

You feel them in your internet and all through your computer, webcams lurking in your walls and mirrors, microphones and trackers in your phone and car.

Research in my field of the supernatural and preternatural was shocking. I clearly saw today's world riddled with Satanic groups, infiltrating families and communities and turning them against those who truly love them. This planet is currently a walking disaster area, a spiritual war-zone and an occult hell.

If you think I'm being a little negative, this article is not for you. We don't see things the same way.

I don't sugar-coat nor offer pink fairy-floss. If my truth is not for you, feel free to leave.

The personal IS political

Personally, I've been stalked and harassed by a Cult for over a decade, if not this entire lifetime, and this is one of my messages to them.

The means they use to stalk and harass me are many and varied, and it's been vital for my survival to clothe myself in shining spiritual armor to block and repel their daily attacks, intrusions and invasions of my sanctuary.

They WILL eventually learn and understand the very bad mistake they've made, continuously attacking a Child of Light. I imagine by then it'll be way too late. For them.

I also hope my thoughts and research offer strength, hope and support to others going through similar distressing circumstances.

Stalking behaviors include:

  • Repeatedly calling you when you’ve asked them not to

  • Sending you unwanted emails and text messages

  • Giving you gifts you never asked for

  • Sharing your personal information with other people

  • Spreading rumors about you via social media

  • Listening in on your personal calls

  • Smear campaigns

  • Paying ex-friends and weak-minded family members to turn against you - often publicly

  • Hacking your internet, keylogging, copying and re-writing your work then claiming it as their own (the cvnt Druga is a big user of this one)

  • Seducing your loved ones

  • Live-streaming every little bit of your personal life on the dark Web thru hidden webcams placed in your home

  • Collecting information about you, such as your behaviors and whereabouts

  • Refusing to leave you alone

  • Approaching you or showing up in places when you didn’t want them to be there

  • Watching or following you from a distance

  • Spying on you with a listening device, camera, or global positioning system

  • Building a Coven of your haters and doing black magic, hexes and other dirty shit on you in death rituals etc

  • Continuously pretending you've lost some fictional competition

  • Taking what's yours by birthright or hard work, and giving it to one of their sluts


Next we'll look at how our boundaries get broken, and I'll presume you already understand the necessity of dropping any co-dependent behaviors around dangerous stalkers and boundary violators.

Remember, many of them are witches, trained in the art of seduction, flattery and bullshit. So put on your winged helmets and grab your weapons of choice as together we hunt them down!

My magical sanctuary is hallowed ground - should I invite them in?

“Tell me again how you're not stalking me?”

― Molly Ringle, Persephone's Orchard

Boundary Violations

'Ignoring your “no,” doing the opposite of what you asked, and mocking your requests are signs your boundaries are being violated,' says Psych Central.

You've already discussed your discomfort

You’ve expressed your boundaries yet they continue breaking them. Repeatedly setting your limits is an indicator of a boundary violation.

“They might want to bring it up multiple times, asking questions and scrutinizing the boundary, even if you explained the boundary clearly and explicitly the first time,” she adds. “It might even feel like conversation déjà vu.” says Angela Sitka, MA, licensed marriage and family therapist.

“A main sign someone doesn’t respect your boundaries is if they don’t stop their actions after you’ve expressed discomfort,” says Quinelle Hickman licensed individual and couples therapist. She explains expressions of discomfort may include:

  • “No, stop!”

  • "I don’t like that"

  • "I don’t want to"

  • "I’d rather not"

  • "I’m not willing to do that"

  • "That makes me feel (insert negative emotion)"

“If you’ve essentially asked for something to stop and someone attempts to persuade you otherwise or continues engaging in activities you’re against, those are signs they don’t respect your boundaries,” she adds.

They get in your face

They get in your space, and it feels off. "Whether it's physical, emotional, or mental space, if you feel uncomfortable, it is likely a boundary violation,” says Katie Lorz, LMHC, trauma and relationship counselor.

You feel physically uncomfortable. You may get sweaty palms, upset stomach, racing heart, elevated body temperature, or claustrophobic,” says Lorz. “This is your body’s natural response and signal that things feel unsafe and that a boundary is being crossed.”

Besides physical discomfort, you might be having a hard time processing thoughts and emotions when they're nearby.

“You may find it difficult to think clearly or have racing thoughts. You may feel frustrated or upset or like you can’t make decisions,” adds Lorz. “You may start to avoid social situations, take extra steps to avoid the person, or be worried about interacting with them.”

Don’t listen or acknowledge you

A sign that someone doesn’t respect your boundaries is interrupting or changing the conversation when you’re sharing something important to you. Dissing, dismissing and disrespecting you.

Minimize or mock you

Sometimes, it’s difficult to consider other people’s intentions when they say things “as a joke,” or you’re not clear if they’re “only teasing.”

But humor can be a manipulation tactic they use to cross the line.

Sitka explains that a sign of broken boundaries may be “invalidating or minimizing your needs that led to the boundary. ‘Oh, come on! You can’t seriously be that bothered by my phone calls at night. You get plenty of sleep!’

Gaslighting is a red flag, says Sitka, saying things like “You’re just being too sensitive. Lighten up!”

Pressure you

Besides ignoring your requests, they try to change your mind about your boundaries. This can be done in many ways, from ridiculing your logic for the boundary, to making you feel guilty for setting the limit.

Maybe they tell you how much you’ve changed, how sensitive you are, or how someone else would never “do that” to them. Perhaps they blame you for not loving them enough or being there for them when they need you.

Silent treatment

They may also use the silent treatment or ghost you whenever you set the record straight.

All of these may be an attempt to continue violating your boundaries and manipulating you into thinking they’re right to do so.

Did they knock? Did you let them in? NO!

“Where in the self-help section of Barnes and Noble

does one find a guide on dealing with a supernatural stalker?”

― Cosmo Knox, Divinity

Supernatural strategies


So the ghoulies are after us. They want our blood and they want us to suffer all the while. Your suffering is the extra cream on top of the blood coffee for them.

The zombified ghouls gather in Covens to do their dirty work - hexes, death rituals and the like. They do like to hang out together in mobs, rolling over in synchronized fashion to to the bidding of their alpha Fungus freak.

These days, despite having certain supernatural abilities similar to ours in terms of intuition, instead of using their abilities they illegally plant surveillance equipment of every kind in your homes and cars, then live-stream all their purloined material of us. Knowing we know and can't stand it and can't stop it is half the fun for those psychopathic monsters. They like to eat the very air of our suffering.

Never forget this and don't feed the beast!

Hexing and the rest is part of their vicious killing game - but how effective is their spellwork really?


My supernatural abilities are well in advance of theirs. I'm not really bragging here, because they're actually very lowly entities walking 'round in human bodies. I haven't as yet met an enemy of their ilk who could surpass me.

As I said to a foolish kitchen witch I recently uncovered writing filth about me on her 'authors page': 'Smarter freaks than you have tried and failed. Some are dead. Just saying.'

Yes I'm sure there are some real magicians out there who could do their worst on me, maybe even bring me down, but they seem to be going about their lives and doing other things. Intelligent.

So the fanatical morons who are obsessed with me have sealed their own fates.

Their hexes don't work on me, so the worst they can really do is the technological spying stuff, gangstalking, smear campaigns and sending death threats to me daily.

They've done quite well really, in taking people out of my life who were ultimately revealed to really be hypocritical haters themselves, so in their own leechlike fashion my enemies have removed some extraneous poisons from my life.

It's well known that as a Dhamphir gets older we get more powerful, same with Vampires. It's just how it is. And one of the things they badly wanted to prevent. Ho hum. Too late.

I'm not going to reveal the powers I know I have, that would be foolish of me, just let me say they will be proven the real fools in taking me on.


Listen up ghouls!

No matter how many times I tell them to fvck the fvck off, the beast and her beta bumboys are still trying to get in. That's really disrespectful! You're not listening to me, ghouls! Here's my answer!

Bring down that drawbridge!

“Stalking is a slow poison for planned murder”

― Dr.P.S. Jagadeesh Kumar

Repelling the beast and its babies

Filling your moat with piranhas and alligators, winding barbwire 'round your fences and walls, locking your palace doors and bringing down the drawbridge. That's a good place to start.

Let them know they're merely a joke to you. Nothing more.

And ain't that God's truth!

the druga gollum The mother of all evil

Locked out, bad evil thangs!

Now respect my wishes and stay far far away!

You and all your evil kind!

“Stalkers have an obsessive over-identification with their unwilling target but also a latent envy of their talents and/or beauty. If they can't possess the person totally,

they will destroy the victim's qualities

that they can never have.”

― Stewart Stafford



Here we go ghouls!

Any hex or spell you send my way will never ever reach me, your target, but rebound and return to do tenfold damage upon YOU!

This applies to any spellwork involving your intention for me to have some kind of accident, injury or illness!

Any depression, sadness or loneliness!

Any losses - financial, creative or emotional - all rebound to you!

They will not reach me!

Any curse you send returns a thousandfold

upon your sad and sorry selves!

Any weakness, confusion and fogginess of mind!

Any immobilising , poisoning and death spells!

All these and the rest of your filthy works I return to you tenfold, thence a hundredfold, and will follow you to the end of your days,

then go down through all your generations,

your families and loved ones!

Into all your coming lifetimes and into any afterlife - into your hell!

You parasites - will yourselves be filled with a billion parasites!

You will sicked and shrivel! Your appearance will disgust

as people will see what you truly are!

You will be haunted and hunted in all the ways you've done to me

and any other innocents!

This Dhamphir is not your victim, you idiots!



The Shiver of the Cloak

'And what, in your view, will become of the palace in the end?’

‘God has many palaces. When all the rooms in a palace have been occupied by bats, God destroys it. That is to say, he stops creating it, which comes to the same thing. It is said that this event resembles a light of such inconceivable power that it burns up the whole world. But what in fact happens is that matter, which is an illusion, disappears and the nature of God, which then will permeate everything, is finally seen as it really is. Much the same, it is believed, happens at the end of each individual life. Our own palace is now experiencing bad times.'

‘The question comes down to this: what are we to do when God finally loses patience and abandons this project?’

Conversation between The Moldavian and Rama, Empire V

“Never stand in the way of letting God use people’s actions

in order to solve a greater issue in the world.”

― Shannon L. Alder



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